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Basic Meditation

This practice is an extension of the basic breath awareness. Begin by practicing breath awareness for a few minutes. Then begin to soften your awareness, resting your awareness on the exhalation.

What does this mean? It means that you are not focusing your attention exclusively on the breath. In basic breath awareness, you had an object of concentration. You focused your full attention on the quality, sound, and feeling of your breath. With this meditation, you are expanding your awareness to allow yourself to also notice your thoughts. That is the main difference between breath awareness and awareness meditation.

What does it mean to notice your thoughts? Simply notice every time your mind starts to wander. You may find yourself planning your day, or recalling a memory, evaluating how "well" you are meditating, or even having an imaginary conversation with someone. At first, we fail to notice our thinking because it is such an unconscious habit. We simply follow our thoughts as if our thoughts are all there is. We think we are our thoughts, and that there is no way to distance ourselves from them. But awareness meditation cultivates an awareness that transcends the push and pull of our habitual thoughts. 

Rest your awareness on your exhale, and notice your thinking. Don't get pulled into the stories, the planning, the evaluations. Don't criticize yourself for thinking. Just become aware. Use the exhalation to keep you connected to the present moment. Its helps to ground you and keep you awake. But don't put so much attention on the breath that you fail to leave space to notice your thinking.

How will this meditation help? It is the first step to understanding how we can direct our internal experience. It is the first step to understanding our unconscious habits. There is no way to do this meditation wrong. You are not trying to achieve some transcendental state of bliss.  You may find that this meditation produces a mental clarity and a sense of well-being. Sometimes it will, and sometimes it won't. That is not the point. The point is to practice noticing, and to begin to understand your mind.

Suggested practice time: At least 5 minutes, daily. 5 minutes may seem like nothing, but make sure you can actually commit to 5 minutes before you set grander goals. 5 minutes is much better than nothing. You can practice meditation independently of your other practices, or practice before or after asana and relaxation.

Commonly Asked Questions About Meditation  

I can't ever clear my thoughts completely. What am I doing wrong?

You're doing nothing wrong. People often think that the benefits of meditation come from ridding oneself of all thoughts. However, that is not the object of this simple awareness meditation. The object of this meditation is simply to become aware of your thoughts, so that you can begin to distinguish the content of your thoughts from your ability to 'witness' your thoughts. That's all. Thoughts will inevitably appear. Just notice them.  Say to yourself, "thinking" and rest your attention lightly on the out breath. If you happen to notice a pattern to your thinking ("criticizing myself again", "planning lunch again", "worrying about money again", "thinking about sex again", or whatever), tuck that away for consideration later. Don't get carried away thinking about your thinking during the meditation.

But I really enjoy thinking. It's nice to have some time to sit quietly and just think. Can I do that instead?

If you find yourself using meditation time to solve problems, daydream, or engage in any other interesting pleasant mental activity, give yourself more quiet, alone time. These forms of thinking are distractions from meditation, even though they can be quite productive and enjoyable. Meditation is fundamentally different from these other activities, which all can pull you out of the present moment. Meditation is an attempt to remove the distractions that let us identify solely with our thinking. Set aside separate time for meditation, even if it's only 5 minutes a day.

 

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